It's Happening !

[Tinker]

Pat & Kim have set a date August 30th of this year . The date they met, got engaged and now married 6 years later . Patrick paid a $500.00 deposit today on the reception . They are getting married outside at the gazebo , where his father worked, Flynn's On The Hill . The reception is in the ballroom afterwards . They are getting a discount on the reception .
They are going with a Cinderella Theme . A while back I bought them the Cinderella cake topper and I'm ordering the serving set from Mouse Surplus . We're trying to rent a white horse & carriage for Kim to arrive in and afterwards a short ride for them and the attendants ( maid of honour & best man ) . Depends on the cost . He bought their rings today . Kim's is a diamond wrap and Patrick picked out a gorgeous Celtic ring .There friend is a DJ and only charging them a small amount . And the pastor that married Jim and I , my mother and late fathers minister is marrying them . Kim and her girlfriend need to get their gowns, invitations are getting ordered tomorrow and they need to order the cake and fresh flowers for the vases for centerpieces with votive candles for the tables . Does anyone know where I can get the Disney confetti from castles or coaches and such ? Pat's Aunt is not only a teacher, but a great photographer . Her husband is going to be the videographer .
They are taking their honeymoon to where else but WDW . :D
By September, they will be in their own home . :hyper: :lol:
I'm very happy for them both and it has helped to take my mind off other troubles if even for a short time .

[wdwgrandma]

Wow!!!!! Congrats to Patrick and Kim! That is awesome news!

[uscwest]

That is great news Tinker. Congratulations to Patrick and Kim.

[Johnie]

Congratulations to Patrick and Kim!

[PaulaK]

Sounds great, congrats to them both!

[Rosie0610]

What great news! All that planning done already! You guys work fast!

[Shellyamc]

Woo-hoo!! What fun :bounce: Makes me remember planning my wedding :blush:

I had castle confetti (We had a medieval wedding) but being that it was 8 years ago, I can't remember where we got it. But I can tell you that it is out there! Not much help, I know :unsure:

[Shellyamc]

Ok I lied, I can help :)

I did find castle confetti here: http://www.shindigz.com/catalog.cfm?caid=751302&nav=Decorating%20Basics%2FTableware%2FConfetti%2FC astle%20Confetti

They also have the mini plastic glass slippers for $5.99 a dozen if that is something you are looking for :thumbs:

[Tinker]

Thanks Shelley . I ordered them their glass slippers last night on ebay . 120 for $12.99 .:thumbs: We won't need that many but she will have extras . We can use them by the cake , listen to me * we* :lol:

[Tinker]

What great news! All that planning done already! You guys work fast! not me, Rosie , Them , They told me the plans when Jim and I got home . They took care of making the appointment at Flynn's and have been saving for awhile . I just didn't say anythingt in case it fell through, but it is really happening this time . I'm so proud of Pat & Kim . They have been through their trials & tribs and have come out on top .

[Tinker]

:oops: had to cancel the glass slippers , groom didn't want shoes . :lol:The seller was cool and understood . :lol: They are getting castle paper baskets instead and filling them with silver & blue M&M's .

[Shellyamc]

:oops: had to cancel the glass slippers , groom didn't want shoes . :lol:The seller was cool and understood . :lol: They are getting castle paper baskets instead and filling them with silver & blue M&M's .


That will look beautiful!! I'm so excited to see how it all comes together.

I know it would be a lot of punching, but you can pick up a Disney castle hole punch on ebay for about $9.00. It would be a lot of work, but they could have confetti that would match and then you could use the punch for scrapbooking etc. Just a thought :)

[Tinker]

Marie's granddaughters are going to make them for me . They have picked Mickey & Stitch pixiedust for Pat ,:lol: and castles & coaches for Kim in silver & blue , Pat doesn't want a Cindi wedding and Kim said, its your wedding too . They are using their cake topper and I'm buying them this serving set . Here is the pic of their wedding topper :

[Rosie0610]

Tinker my DH always says shoes on the table is bad luck anyway! Yeah for paper Castles!!! (and who doesn't love m&ms??)

[Dzneeprincss]

I felt the same way Rosie when she said Patrick didn't want shoes I thought that was good no shoes on the table.

[tweenie123]

That's great news - congratulations to both of them.

[Bec]

Wonderful news! I made castle confetti using the hole punch - took ages:rolleyes: :lol:

[Katie C]

You can get actual Disney princess confetti which is castles and crowns, of course it is all pink! And ebay is a great source for all sorts
We're having our civil in WDW but we're having a relgious ceremony in the UK first with a Disney themed reception- we've got tables themed after Disney films, and we're using Disney money boxes as table centres! For favours I've got Disney party bags (princess for girls and piarates for boys) in which they'll get sweets, bubbles, a party popper, party blower and either an yey patch or a tiara, depending of course! We got cinderella baloons from ebay, and our cake is lots of little cakes ith Mickeys iced on to them, and a Mickey shaped top cake, with a mickey and minnie wedding topper! There's lots out there, so just keep browsing around.
Best wishes to them, I'm sure it'll be great!

[Dzneeprincss]

Wonderful news! I made castle confetti using the hole punch - took ages:rolleyes: :lol:

I figured I was making it for my daughter's wedding in June so I can make extras.

[JAZMINE]

:congrats: Great news to Patrick & Kim i bet youre all so excited:D the cake topper is beautiful :thumbs: cant wait to hear how it all comes together,keep us posted Tink xx
Jacqui :)

[littlepickering]

Sounds fantastic, fast planning!!! I'm sure it will all be fab.!!!!

[Tinker]

Scratch, the Cindi or Disney Theme . They are going with a traditional Irish wedding . Kim, her DM and DS went shopping and their gown/dresses . Her sister which is her Maid of Honour is wearing Clover Green . Her mom went with a deep Royal Blue . I'm debating on what color to buy . I'm thinking about a rose petal pink or honey dew . I need help deciding, ladies . It's getting close .
I can't believe this wedding is only a few short months away . There is so much left to do, but it seems like she & her family have it under control . :faint: :lol:

[Tinker]

:bump:

[Breeze]

With the other colors in the wedding party I'd go with a deeper color and not a pastel, but that's me hun, you've gotta go with whatever color you like the best :D

[Tinker]

With the other colors in the wedding party I'd go with a deeper color and not a pastel, but that's me hun, you've gotta go with whatever color you like the best :D my thought too, Breeze, but I'm lost on the color as to what will look good . I could always go with black . :runaway: Actually I saw a black & white one that looks like what I'm wearing in my sig pic

[Dzneeprincss]

Tinker-
My daughter is having all pastels in her party and the mother of the groom got a pastel but I got black with pastel pink flowers and panel

[Breeze]

my thought too, Breeze, but I'm lost on the color as to what will look good . I could always go with black . :runaway: Actually I saw a black & white one that looks like what I'm wearing in my sig pic

The dress in the picture is cute for a cruise, but it's not right for the mother of the groom. What about a deep mauve color or deep rose. Just stay away from red or burgandy since the maid of honor is wearing green (think Christmas colors) :eek::lol:

Just looking around quickly while I eat lunch, check out this color and style maybe

http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2943078/0~2376776~2374327~2374331~6014165?mediumthumbnail= Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=6014165&P=1

Even though I don't always like black/silver this one is so pretty
http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2970316/0~2376776~2374327~2374331~6014165?mediumthumbnail= Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=6014165&P=1

[Tinker]

How about this one ? color suggestion , please

http://www.davidsbridal.com/mother_of_bride_detail.jsp?stid=2333&prodgroup=59

[Breeze]

I see that dress as more of what a bridesmaid would wear and not the mother of the groom :shrug:

However if you really like it, take a look at the Marine (blue/green) color because that will look wonderful on you. Also look at the little jackets so you don't freeze to death in the AC at the reception!! http://www.davidsbridal.com/accessory_detail.jsp?stid=3441&prodgroup=209

I can see you in this dress in the eggplant (deep purple) color with the added bonus of this dress having a fancy little jacket that you could put on when you get cold in the AC. http://www.davidsbridal.com/mother_of_bride_detail.jsp?stid=2207&prodgroup=59

HEY, did you see this dress on sale in the marine color :thumbs:http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridesmaids_detail.jsp?sfc=193&sp=sales&pid=3737

[Tinker]

I like that last one, Breeze, but Kim said, not in blue . Mom's in blue . :rolleyes:
You think the color blue green would be ok . :unsure:

[Tinker]

I like this one too .
http://www.davidsbridal.com/mother_of_bride_detail.jsp?stid=2984&prodgroup=59

[littlepickering]

Tinker, I liked your second pick dress more than your first pick dress. The dress colors are so hard to choose. You should narrow the color choices down and then take a snapshot of yourself in those color choices and see which one frames your face best. Once you compare the pictures side by side you will be able to more easily see which one looks best. BTW light colored dresses do not photograph as well as darker ones. The darger dresses tend to show the detail better (except for black or dark navy).

[Tinker]

Tinker, I liked your second pick dress more than your first pick dress. The dress colors are so hard to choose. You should narrow the color choices down and then take a snapshot of yourself in those color choices and see which one frames your face best. Once you compare the pictures side by side you will be able to more easily see which one looks best. BTW light colored dresses do not photograph as well as darker ones. The darger dresses tend to show the detail better (except for black or dark navy). and dark colors slim :D OK, now we got that narrowed down . This is what I want , not a style too teenish , but then again I feel to young to wear some . :blush:
What is the rule of etiquette when it comes to the grooms moms dress , I think I was to wait till Kim's mom made her choice . Does it mean I can't wear a shade lighter than hers , meaning same color . After Kim looked at the marine blue and dress she liked it . :unsure:

[Breeze]

The marine color is more in the teal family which tends to be more greenish than blue. I love the richness of that color on line, but you are almost going to have to order one and try it on to see how the color looks on you.

Did you look at the victorian lilac color?

[Tinker]

The marine color is more in the teal family which tends to be more greenish than blue. I love the richness of that color on line, but you are almost going to have to order one and try it on to see how the color looks on you. I think I may go with that color , Breeze . I like it and Kim said, ok and her mom doesn't care . :D I think it will look nice , I have green eyes .

[Breeze]

I think I may go with that color , Breeze . I like it and Kim said, ok and her mom doesn't care . :D I think it will look nice , I have green eyes .

That color will make your eyes look amazing :thumbs::D

[Rosie0610]

I like the last one TInker. WHat color would you get?

[Tinker]

:unsure: Rosie . We are waiting to hear from Kim's DM , we have to make sure her dress is not marine blue . She is calling it royal blue . It may be marine blue . After Kimmy looked at it , she said it's close . I don't think I can wear the same color , can I ?
Come on you newlyweds , what is the color code when it comes to attendants & mother of the bride . :shrug:

[JuniorMickey]

Have you checked The Knot's Wedding Etiquette (http://theknot.com/keywords/sc_161_527.shtml) area? They have it all

[Tinker]

Have you checked The Knot's Wedding Etiquette (http://theknot.com/keywords/sc_161_527.shtml) area? They have it all JM , you are a doll . :hug: I loved the color of the first gown as soon as I clicked on the link . And I found the info I needed , I am to go with the same hue . I'm going to try and find teal . I think the marine blue may be to close to Kim's mom . I think it will look pretty between the clover green and royal blue . I made an appt at Bridals by Sandra for tomorrow .

[littlepickering]

Best of lucjk choosing your dress. I'm sure you will make a great selection and as you had stated earlier that your eyes are green that some of the colors will look fab with your eyes!

[JuniorMickey]

JM , you are a doll . :hug: I loved the color of the first gown as soon as I clicked on the link . And I found the info I needed , I am to go with the same hue . I'm going to try and find teal . I think the marine blue may be to close to Kim's mom . I think it will look pretty between the clover green and royal blue . I made an appt at Bridals by Sandra for tomorrow .

I spent a lot of time on The Knot when my Sister and good friend got married back to back

[Johnie]

When Alysia and I were bridesmaids last week, we all word Victorian Lilac from David's Bridal. It is a beautiful color.

[Tinker]

This is my gown :
http://www.jordanfashions.com/products.asp?nCatID=1&nProductID=941&nPhotoID=24467
it can be worn with spaghetti straps or without and comes with a shawl . The material is chiffon overlay and very flowing . It looked very nice on . The first one I liked, came in the color I wanted and was a sold deal . :D
Thanks, Breeze for helping me to pick the color . Thanks, JM , for that link , it helped me know for sure that I was on the spot picking this hue . And TY to everyone else that is helping me through this stressful time . :hug:


in this color :
http://www.jordanfashions.com/products.asp?nCatID=3&nProductID=861&nPhotoID=23945

[JuniorMickey]

Go with straps

Pretty color

[Tinker]

Go with straps

Pretty color I think so, too, JM . Kim's mom and sister have straps, but Kim doesn't . So, I was going to wear the straps . :yes:

Thank You . :hug::D

[JAZMINE]

Wow Tinker that`s a beautiful gown and i think the colour would be amazing on you especially with the colour of your eyes, let us know what you decide on :wink:
Jacqui xxx

[Tinker]

bought the gown in the first link , the color teal in the 2nd link Jazmine . I went just in time , my gown will be in August 1st . I paid in full and saved 10% . :D

[Breeze]

Teal is perfect and I love the dress :D Is Jim wearing a tux?

[JAZMINE]

:congrats: Tink, i know how stressful it can be as the Mom im sure you will all look wonderful, cant wait for the piccies :thumbs:
Jacqui :)xxx

[Tinker]

Yup, Jimminey will be in a tux . Kim said , he can go with a teal bowtie or vest or both . :D

Awwwww, Jacqui , thank you , I will post lots of pics, but you will have to wait till I return from Florida . Wait, maybe I can take my laptop and upload them since I'll be at a friends house .

[OKWTink]

Oh gosh, Sister Tinker! Thanks so much for telling me about the link in this thread! The gown is stunning. I love the flow of the back. :yes: Teal will be perfect for you.

Some kinda Mother of the Groom you're gonna' be! :yes: :bounce: No stuffy ol' lady dress for my Sister Tinker! :D :D :hug:

[Tinker]

Oh gosh, Sister Tinker! Thanks so much for telling me about the link in this thread! The gown is stunning. I love the flow of the back. :yes: Teal will be perfect for you.

Some kinda Mother of the Groom you're gonna' be! :yes: :bounce: No stuffy ol' lady dress for my Sister Tinker! :D :D :hug::lol: thats what they had me look at first when I first got there . I jokingly said to my own personal sales associate that those dresses look like something my grandmother would wear, but not me . She :lol:and said, let me show you something more your age . I really lucked out as they had this one in teal and it was my favorite when it was on the hanger .

[Rosie0610]

Love the dress and color Tinker! :dance: It's a WINNER!!!! :)

[nickirick]

What a beautiful gown. :yes: You are going to look fabulous! :D

[Johnie]

I love that color!

[Tinker]

Thank You :blush:

[JAZMINE]

Now dont you be stressing trying to post pics im sure we can all wait till you get home :thumbs:
Jacqui :)xxx

[Tinker]

corsage or wrist corsage ?

[Breeze]

Y Jimminey will be in a tux . Kim said , he can go with a teal bowtie or vest or both . :D

What about a top hat and tails :wink:


corsage or wrist corsage ?

Wrist corsage for sure sweetie :thumbs:

[Tinker]

Y

What about a top hat and tails :wink:




Wrist corsage for sure sweetie :thumbs::lol:
thats what I'm asking for . :wink:

[mumof2]

wow! that's a beautiful gown, and a gorgeous colour too - a wrist corsage would look great.


BTW, did you ever get the mickey confetti sorted?

[Tinker]

wow! that's a beautiful gown, and a gorgeous colour too - a wrist corsage would look great.


BTW, did you ever get the mickey confetti sorted? Thank You . No, they decided to go with an Irish wedding . The only thing they are having Disney is a Cindi & Prince Charming cake topper . :D
They are going to Las Vegas and Disneyland for their honeymoon , but not until February . They will see DL before I do . :D

[Breeze]

You and Jim are going to look so awesome :thumbs: I can't wait for the wedding so I can see the pictures :D

[mumof2]

Thank You . No, they decided to go with an Irish wedding . The only thing they are having Disney is a Cindi & Prince Charming cake topper . :D
They are going to Las Vegas and Disneyland for their honeymoon , but not until February . They will see DL before I do . :D


an Irish wedding - that sounds like fun! We had the pleasure of travelling to Ireland for my cousins daughters wedding some years back...it was great!

[lisaw]

That's a beautiful dress Tinker - you will look stunning! Can't wait for the pictures! :hehe:

[Mermaid]

Ahh...that's wonderful news...congratulations to them...

[Tinker]

since our pastors anniversary is the same date as Patrick & Kim's wedding date , he will be on vacation . :eek: But the pastor that married Jim & I ( my parents pastor) is marrying the kids . :excited: Funny, the same doctor that delivered me, delivered Pat . Now the same pastor that married me is marrying my son . How weird is that !
We are all so excited !

[joanne]

That'll make it so special! :excited:

[Whitequeen]

So! What are we wearing? No wait......................we've been here before.:wink: :lol:

[psdjmem]

since our pastors anniversary is the same date as Patrick & Kim's wedding date , he will be on vacation . :eek: But the pastor that married Jim & I ( my parents pastor) is marrying the kids . :excited: Funny, the same doctor that delivered me, delivered Pat . Now the same pastor that married me is marrying my son . How weird is that !
We are all so excited !

Oh that is great it will be extra special!

[littlepickering]

Too sweet!

[Tinker]

So! What are we wearing? No wait......................we've been here before.:wink: :lol: do ya think :wink: I posted a link to my dress somewhere in this thread . Haven't loss much weight though and need to really shed some pounds . :wink: I've been a non smoker for over a year now and found that I like to eat . :lol:
The reception is sit down country style with open bar . And we have to be on a plane verrrrrry early the next morning . Oh, did I tell you the reception ends at 11 PM . :whistle: I'll be crawling on the plane . :faint::lol:

[Tinker]

Talk about Irish the name of the caterer/reception hall * Flynn's * On The Hill . Here :

http://www.flynnsonthehill.com/index.html